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Forgiving Big Mistakes, September 12

The Lord relented in the punishment he had threatened to inflict on the people. Exodus 32:7-11, 13-14.

If we say something stupid or do something inappropriate in the presence of people we love, we hope they will forgive us.

When we are with those we love, we relax. We speak more easily the thoughts of our heart, and we do more readily the impulsive deeds that bring relationships to life. Sometimes we act with the spontaneity that love enjoys, but with the inappropriateness that loves does not tolerate. We say something insulting. We do something crude. We give in to the temptation to love someone else.

The best relationships tolerate mistakes. If someone loves us completely and wholly for who we are, that person will accept us, mistakes and all. Our misdeeds are a part of us; to love someone is to love the person that commits errors of judgment.

Moses reminds God of this. While Moses was on the mountain receiving the law from God, the people grew tired of waiting down below. They removed their jewelry and threw it into a fire. Out came something resembling a golden calf. So they worshiped it. They worshiped something that was not God. In the spontaneity of the moment, at a time when religious fervor ran high, the people made a terrible mistake.

Moses reminds God of the covenant promised to all the descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Israel. And God relents. God does not punish the people for their sin.

No matter how stupid our mistakes, God will forgive us.

Written by Paul Turner. Liturgy Training Publications
Copyright 2003, Archdiocese of Chicago

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